House of Misfits
House of Misfits
Self-Help Discord Server with a focus on Mental Health and Support

The only Mental Health Discord
that focuses on Self-Help

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Hey, I’m “Mayhem”, the creator of House of Misfits self-help Discord.

I originally made this server to help those who lived with mental health disorders, but found that the best way to help people is to give them the tools to help themselves.

Let’s face it. The cost of medication and healthcare isn’t getting any lower.

So we have to find a way to get better without waiting months for a therapy appointment or putting ourselves in a lifetime of debt.

That’s where House of Misfits steps in.

We’re a community of everyday people trying to finish school, land jobs, find love, live a centered life, and shape our unique identities despite limitations outside of our control.

Like you, we believe in having an unrelenting desire to keep going, even when we’re hit with the words incurable, too expensive, or you’ll spend your life living with this. We keep living and trying to thrive, even when the odds are stacked against us.

Hit the button below. Your new support system is waiting for you.


House of Misfits really is a wayward home for people who have always felt different, alone or misunderstood.

There’s a sense of family, care and support. There are support systems in place that you can benefit from when you’re having a more difficult day, and there are always people to help you out and be there for you.
— Lyssu, Member

House of Misfits Self-Help Discord offers…

Accountability Groups

Every month we host a themed accountability group where you commit to 4 weeks of pushing towards a common goal. You are matched with 3-5 people of similar age and given a structured system to help you reach your goals. Small steps now for big changes later.

Event Nights

Events are hosted 3+ times a week. We have a “Toast Me” event (for body positivity), a “Game Night” with free games and voice chat, and a “Karaoke Night” so you can let loose and dazzle us with your best rendition of ‘Livin on a Prayer’ or obtuse Disney songs. Your choice.

Locked 18+ Channels for Adults

Yes, Discord is usually filled with teenagers and minors, who are completely welcome in this server, though I (as someone pushing 30) understand needing a break to talk to other grown people. We have locked channels for verified 18+ members.

Support Team to Talk to

We have a modest team of volunteers who are willing to listen, talk and walk you through the tough times in your life. While House of Misfits is NOT a crisis hotline or a substitute for therapy, we’re here to hold you up on days that are kicking your ass.

I came to a point where I felt incredibly alone in my journey with mental illness but I knew I wanted to make a difference. HoM allowed me to help others going through a tough time whilst I was receiving so much love and support from the community which helps me stay sane. A therapist isn’t always a call away but HoM is a ping away and that has certainly impacted my life for the better.
— Shimoney

Quick Stats at a Glance…

Updated May 2019

Members: 2579
Verified Members: 523
Verified 18+ Members: 257
Messages per day (excluding bots): 10,485

Got some questions before committing?

Our inbox is manned by our awesome volunteer human resources team. Feel free to send us an email with your question and we’ll get back to you within 72 hours.

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